I've got the week off coming up, and I think I'm definitely going to at least get the ring appraised, so that I can sell it. I'm still debating on whether to keep the money or just write out a check to him. I don't want it anymore, but I'd feel weird keeping money that isn't technically mine. But then again, it's been 8 years, and I like Ikea. I'll have to think about it some more.